The lies of Adultery

Adultery has always been a tolerated evil in African Nigerian, evil because the Bible makes it quite clear that adultery is sin. In our present society it is often seen to be the lesser of two evils, the greater being Polygamy- marriage to more than one woman.Many a women are willingly to turn a blind eye to it as long as "he still caters for me and my children". The golden rule for cheating husbands has always been- avoid getting caught, what she does not know cannot hurt her, "after all I haven't brought another woman to the house yet".


I would like for us to consider adultery from two perspectives:
First the single lady dating a married man and subsequently the married woman having a sexual relationship with a married man (not her husband).

KUDOS

I can't help but give kudos to etisalat their ad campaign with commedian/actor Francis Odega is so captivating brings a smile to my face anytime I catch a glimpse of it on TV.

Get involved

Get involved in works of charity in your church, neighborhood and society. Identify a need or lack within the society and make available your resources in time or money to help alleviate those problems.

Give it all up

How much are you willingly to give up for your home, your marriage?





Google CFO Patrick Pichette, 52, shared the decision to step down after a successful seven years at the company as he puts it after 30 years of non stop work he had decided to retire to spend more time with his wife who he describes as having done a marvelous job raising their three kids. 

Thanks Mother (inlaw)

Many times we set very high standards for others, standards which we might not be able to meet. A few years after I got married, I used to think my Mother-in-law treated me different from her son and daughter who lived with I and my husband (her son) but looking back now older and wiser I know without a shadow of doubt that she had always loved me.

True glamour

Mel B at the National Television Awards held at London's O2 arena on Wednesday evening

In this world of sexual perversion and nudity, this is my definition of true glamour. To see Mel B who has such an enviable figure, look so beautiful and sophisticated, without overly exposing certain parts of her body is so refreshing. 


I say good job girl, what say y'all?

Nigerian new mother registered British couple as her baby's parents

Mailonline reports that a Nigerian, Oluwaseun Adenubi, 30, pleaded guilty to fraud by false representation after using the passport of her friend, Rita Ogunkunle, 32, to obtain free medical care after giving birth. The Nigerian mother allowed a British couple to register as her new baby’s parents in bid to get free NHS care and secure a UK passport for the child, a court heard.

Shop for less

Here are some deals that you could take advantage of, remember these deals are  available within a limited time frame.

Spa Pamper Package for #3,100 a one and the half session for one boasts of 30 minute massage OR exfoliation and scrub, 30 minute sauna bath and 30 mini facial or foot scrub. All that should help take off some work stress at a good price too.

The #3,950 multi purpose dish trainer is such a cool design, sizeable enough to keep at store flat plates, bowls and utensils. Love the blue colour too.

Vote not Fight

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I seem to have lost my inspiration to write about Nigeria.  I have been going through the news headlines Buhari Reaction to Fayose’s Controversial Newspaper Advert, Federal Government of Nigeria, announced the reduction of the fuel price of petrol from N97 per litre to N87 per litre, I am not sick, PDP is desperate- Buhari etc. hoping for some pointers as to which way Nigeria but it just ain't happening.

I haven't been given a gold plated iPhone 6 like tuface but all I have to say to Nigerians is Vote Not Fight.....JCOG

Death! Where is their sting?

Muna Obiekwe's death again just brings home the point that life is so volatile that we should cherish every moment we have with our family and loved ones cause you never know when either could be taken away.


Muna never discussed his health challenges through his career as an actor, so it was quite a shock to hear about his death from a kidney failure. May his soul rest in peace.

The Great Shephard

This is a shout out to all sundry do not miss out on today's appointment with the great shepherd at the Redemption Camp Km 46 Lagos-Ibadan Expressway. It promises to be an exciting time with the King of Kings. See you there.

Where is TBN?

I was recently going through my cable network television and I could not find TBN Trinity Broadcasting Network instead I see Faith Africa. That truly got me worried as I wondered if TBN had gone "caput" off air.

After an internet search, I was so excited to read on the DSTV website that TBN had not been replaced, rather the network had rebranded in their own words, "This name change and branding strategy is a direct result of the Board's innovative approach to keep Christian television fresh and relevant in today's society".

This move does make a lot of sense considering the limited exposure of the youth to the bible doctrines, not many might understand the meaning of the word Trinity and how the "Trinity" is a reflection of the divine nature of God. Faith on the other hand is something that every one identifies with, as it travails the core of man's existence, the desire for relevance, a higher purpose for man's existence here on earth other than just evolution.

The word Faith cuts across every denomination as it is the backbone of every religion be it Faith in; Oneself, Science or  a Supreme being. The Faith Broadcasting Network professes Faith in the one true God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. The one who is more than able to do what he says he will do. To him be all the glory now and forever more. Amen.       

Maid beats child

The heart of man is desperately wicked, why would a human being with blood flowing through their veins melt out such an action against an innocent helpless child. Unbelieveable!

Two things either she must have undergone such treatment as a child growing up or she was being maltreated by the owners of the house and consequently melted out her anger and frustration on the child. Whatever the case may be however is no justification for her actions and I hope she faces the full brunt of the law.


Mothers please beware of who and what you bring into your home in the guise of help...JCOG

Who is being entertained?

 

Reading through excerpts from a T-magazine interview with Jaden and Willow Smith, I can not help but wonder what kids born in the entertainment industry are exposed to. 

A simplistic question like What have you been reading?

Brought up rather the unique answers of "Quantum physics Osho" for the 14 year old Willow Smith and “The Ancient Secret of the Flower of Life and ancient texts; things that can’t be pre-dated" for the 16-year old Jaden Smith.

 

It is Well

Life can cough up a good number of challenges and it may seem like higher forces are working against you. During those moments remember that you have a God who loves you he confirms this in his word in Psalm 50:15 And call upon me in the day of trouble: I will deliver thee, and thou shalt glorify me.

Stay faithful to his word, pray ceaselessly and trust that the Lord is able to deliver you from every affliction.

Dealing with challenges makes life interesting, and overcoming them makes life meaningful do not lose faith, hold on it is well.